Below are the videos from the presentation of “True Betrayal: Overcoming the Betrayal of Your Spouse’s Sexual Sin.” For the various counseling options available from this material visit www.summitrdu.com/counseling.
NOTE: Many people have asked how they can get a copy of the seminar notebook referenced in this verbal presentation. Summit members can pick up a copy of the notebook in the church office. For those outside the Summit family, you can request a copy from Amy LaBarr (alabarr@summitrdu.com), office administrator over counseling.
STEP 1.
PREPARE yourself physically, emotionally, and spiritually to face your suffering.
True Betrayal: Step 1 from Equip on Vimeo.
For the “How to Talk to Children When Sexual Sin Affects the Family” appendix click here: Appendix Talking to Children When Sexual Sin Affects the Family
Blog post “How to End an Extra-Marital Relationship” (referenced as Appendix B from the False Love seminar)
STEP 2.
ACKNOWLEDGE the specific history and realness of my suffering.
True Betrayal: Step 2 from Equip on Vimeo.
For the “Evaluation – Condition of Marriage Before Sexual Sin” assessment click here: Evaluation – Condition of Marriage Before Sexual SinSTEP 3.
UNDERSTAND the impact of my suffering.
True Betrayal: Step 3 from Equip on Vimeo.
STEP 4.
LEARN MY SUFFERING STORY which I used to make sense of my experience.
True Betrayal: Step 4 from Equip on Vimeo.
STEP 5.
MOURN the wrongness of what happened and receive God’s comfort.
True Betrayal: Step 5 from Equip on Vimeo.
STEP 6.
LEARN MY GOSPEL STORY by which God gives meaning to my experience.
True Betrayal: Step 6 from Equip on Vimeo.
STEP 7.
IDENTIFY GOALS that allow me to combat the impact of my suffering.
True Betrayal: Step 7 from Equip on Vimeo.
STEP 8.
PERSEVERE in the new life and identity to which God has called me.
True Betrayal: Step 8 from Equip on Vimeo.
STEP 9.
STEWARD all of my life for God’s glory.
True Betrayal: Step 9 from Equip on Vimeo.


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